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Gentlemen, forgive me, but there is a reality called “girl joy.”

The energy created when female friends and sisters come together simply cannot emerge in environments where men are present.

But why?

Women have egos too; women can be sharp, and they put a lot of effort into making their own ideas accepted.

BUT… this situation turns into pure joy when women who love each other gather. Battle axes are tucked into purses, and egos are hidden away. Ideas fly through the air, and everyone falls in love with each other’s thoughts. And those laughs after a glass or two… those laughs extend the life of anyone who hears them. Just imagine what they do for those who are actually laughing! 🙂

I’ve been in environments where only men were present. Theirs is a different kind of thing… I wouldn’t call it “joy,” but it has its fun side. If a match is on, there’s plenty of swearing, goals, beer, and jumping on sofas. If raki is being served, the conversation is always “what will become of this country?” That’s it!

But is “girl joy” like that? No matter the topic, there are whispers, exchanges of top-secret information, and gossip supported by gestures and facial expressions… Polished nails, red lipsticks, sparkling earrings, necklaces, rings, and stylish outfits. These alone are reason enough for the dose of joy to increase manifold.

And you don’t necessarily need to be partying wildly. If you’re troubled, girls-only environments reduce your pain from a 10 to a 1. A female friend grieves with you, sheds tears with you. She gets drunk with you and treats whatever is bothering you as her own enemy, never hesitating to speak her mind.

That’s exactly what “girl joy” is. It adds fun to your fun, shares your sorrow, and stands in the front row for you if necessary.

My last two short trips with my girlfriends inspired this piece. Those uncalculated laughs shared on the road stay in one’s mind far longer than the scenery of the destination.

Take care of your sisters and your female friends like the apple of your eye. If they are in your life, don’t ever let them go.

Women-to-women gatherings are the most beautiful detail of this crazy world.

With love,

If These Piece had a Color : It would be ”Red as a lipstick”.

If These Piece had a Song : It would be ”The good, the bad and the Crazy from Imany”. https://open.spotify.com/intl-tr/track/0MvjUr7fKzchb49tt3OrMS?si=cd8f37ecfe294c46

If These Piece had a Scent: It would be ”Powder ‘.